Talking About Your Problems - Sharing your Secrets
Everyone needs a soul mate or friend to share with
Everybody needs to talk about their problems. Whatever you keep to yourself is causing tremendous pain. Whatever you keep to yourself is keeping you away from loving others and allowing them to love you. Whatever you keep to yourself is affecting other people. Sharing = dissolving all in Love.
You have to share what you are hurt about, what your desires are and what you feel you can not talk about, what you deny and what you do not want to face. You need to have people in your life who know all of your deepest secrets and problems. The things that make you want to hide, things you can not talk about or face, issues and problems that cause anxiety- can mostly be solved through talking- through connecting to another human being in a loving way. To have someone understand you and feel your pain is enough to heal you. To be understood, loved, accepted and forgiven whatever you have done in the past- having everything settled and dissolved in Love.
What seems like the biggest problem in the universe can easily be reduced to nothing by talking to another person. It is good to have someone in your life- a soul mate. That person has to know everything about you.
Do you have a soul mate? Does someone really know you fully- all your secrets and problems? Can you talk about everything to someone, such as your love, sexual desires, fears and dreams? If you can experience that unconditional love from others and yourself then you can enjoy living and having fun in life. One of the most attractive qualities especially in a man is to be really happy. This is someone who enjoys living and loving whilst having fun- especially in his work, who shares everything with those close to him. Having a happiness that comes from the deepest aspect of your entire being gives you the ability to have fun and makes you an attractive person. It makes people feel good to be around such as person. If you are good enough for yourself then you are good enough for everybody. The things you worry about with other people- nobody cares anyway.
So go out, have fun and be yourself. Let everybody know about yourself what your life is all about. It is okay to be different from others. Normal people are mostly boring anyway. Talking and sharing problems is the way to solve them.
