Cures for Sexual Disturbance, Performance Anxiety- Anxiety Provoked by Sexual Worries, Fears or Uncertainty
One of the main factors of anxiety may be disturbed and unbalanced sexual energy
Sexuality is a direct method of practising Love. Sexuality in its true sense is divine. It’s proof of Love. If you are thinking of a person and getting turned on it means that person is also getting turned on by you. Loving a person means saying yes to that person, bowing to the deepest part of their being. Yes to fulfilling their needs, and yes to their desires and fantasies.
If there are any problems getting turned on it most likely means that you are with the totally wrong partner. Both partners need to be open for giving and receiving love. Giving and receiving are two equal skills like ying and yang. If one person is too stingy or if one person can't absorb the others love then there may be problems.
Sexual root causes of anxiety and depression
Sexuality is a big part of a person. Men and woman think about it all the time. It’s a big energy in a person that wants to find satisfaction and an outlet. It’s a good thing, but sometimes if the flow of energy gets disturbed then it can manifest in all kinds of problems such as anxiety and depression.
Any shock experience in your childhood may have caused a disturbance in your sexuality and relationships. This can be anything from sexual abuse, to a strange or unnatural sexual encounter at a young age, or even being made to feel guilty for having natural sexual feelings.
It is also possible to inherit ill attitudes towards sexuality from your parents, culture or religion. Attitudes like this can cause a lot of psychological damage. The most damaging belief is that sex is a sin. This belief is linked with guilt and punishment. Sex and any type of physical love or affection is actually proof of Love on the way home to God. It's an essential part of learning to Love. Men and woman are made to Love.
Healthy relationships with your parents create the foundation toward having healthy adult relationships. Love from parents and how they interact with you forms a substantial part of your sexual personality. This includes how you relate to yourself and others as a male man or a female woman. You may have to get in peace with your parents and yourself first before being able to fully manifest love in your life and relationships.
Love can and will heal any sexual problems or trauma from your past. The first thing to do is to accept. Then actively learn to love and dissolve any problems in love by loving whatever needs to be healed or whatever is hurting. Let Love take care of your problems.